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amitheasshole
1
dev
3
morality-ethics|advice
care-harm|sanctity-degradation
char-0
0
is being a good friend
Cutting a friend off after they've had enough to drink
agency
1
3
legal
2
char-0
explicit
cutting off my friend's drinking
reddit/amitheasshole/ajv9il
Cutting a friend off after they've had enough to drink is being a good friend.
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104
17
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
2
social-norms
authority-subversion|sanctity-degradation
char-0
0
It's okay
everyone practicing a religion in the same way.
agency
0
2
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
not standing for a psalm
reddit/amitheasshole/a8783a
It's okay that not everyone practices a religion in the same way.
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121
61
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms|description
null
char-0
0
It is normal
living with a roommate in college.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
hypothetical
wanting to find a roommate early, and including freshman
reddit/amitheasshole/ahs56e
It is normal for people to live with a roommate in college.
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107
101
2
narrator|a roommate
amitheasshole
1
dev
3
description
null
char-0
0
It's understandable
having difficulty relating to someone of a different lifestyle.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
hypothetical
having a gay best friend
reddit/amitheasshole/b1ywsp
It's understandable if it's difficult to relate to someone of a different lifestyle.
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41
49
2
narrator|a gay best friend
amitheasshole
1
dev
3
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-1
0
It's wrong
claiming to have a disorder that you don't have.
agency
-2
3
legal
-2
char-1
explicit
calling someone out for claiming they have OCD
reddit/amitheasshole/anfda0
It's wrong to claim to have a disorder that you don't have.
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120
138
2
narrator|someone
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
shouldn't
children thinking ill of their parent's motives.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
hypothetical
believing that my mom is trying to guilt me into pleading the fifth
reddit/amitheasshole/ax9zt0
Children shouldn't think ill of their parent's motives.
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4
102
2
narrator|my mom
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
you shouldn't
destroying the property of others.
agency
-2
4
tolerated
-2
char-0
hypothetical
cutting a child soccer ball in half
reddit/amitheasshole/adrfbl
You shouldn't destroy the property of others.
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42
31
2
narrator|a child
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
expected
family staying in contact
agency
0
3
legal
2
char-0
probable-no
wanting to be distant with my parents/family
reddit/amitheasshole/b358s1
Family is expected to stay in contact.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b358s1/3YMU66OBIQNWKIHJ54PCQ9E9ETWGHH/111/1
111
39
3
narrator|my parents|family
amitheasshole
1
train
4
advice
care-harm
char-1
0
should
leaving diagnosing medical problems to the professionals.
agency
0
4
legal
2
char-1
explicit-no
being annoyed at my friend for self-diagnosing
reddit/amitheasshole/9z7xes
You should leave diagnosing medical problems to the professionals.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/9z7xes/3SB5N7Y3O6JL9IBN7WIRKHFSSC8G0T/94/1
94
59
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
it's wrong
punching others
agency
-2
4
illegal
-2
char-none
null
laughing at a joke where a women gets punched
reddit/amitheasshole/asksij
It's wrong to punch others.
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42
11
2
narrator|a women
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|advice
care-harm
char-0
0
You should always
being honest about your feelings.
agency
1
4
legal
2
char-0
explicit-no
dating someone I didn't have feelings for so I wouldn't upset them
reddit/amitheasshole/afy7uz
You should always be honest about your feelings.
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111
106
2
narrator|someone
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
care-harm
char-0
0
It's okay
not being sure about your feelings.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
going on a date with someone who I am not sure I have feelings for
reddit/amitheasshole/amf89q
It's okay to not be sure about your feelings.
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42
127
2
narrator|someone
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
null
char-none
0
should
understanding if someone does not want to talk in the morning.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-none
null
not wanting to talk in the morning
reddit/amitheasshole/b5igmo
You should understand if someone does not want to talk in the morning.
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16
3
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
2
advice
null
char-0
0
it's good
waiting for the job you want.
agency
0
2
legal
0
char-0
explicit-no
taking a job only as a stopgap until the job I want opens
reddit/amitheasshole/aic12w
It's good to wait for the job you want.
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42
39
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
dev
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
null
null
1
You shouldn't
staying with your friend's partner while they are going through a divorce.
null
null
null
null
null
null
null
not letting my best friend stay with my wife and I while he's going through a divorce
reddit/amitheasshole/b73t6k
You shouldn't stay with your friend's partner while they are going through a divorce.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b73t6k/3NG53N1RLYY94K9P5JLT75Z2G3XP8R/42/2
42
106
3
narrator|my best friend|my wife
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|advice
authority-subversion
char-1
0
You shouldn't
letting your partner tell you what to do.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-1
probable
not wanting my s/o to start drinking
reddit/amitheasshole/b2d34y
You shouldn't let your partner tell you what to do.
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42
42
2
narrator|my s / o
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
should
helping out your parents when they are having financial problems.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
hypothetical
being mad at my mom for living Pay Check to pay check
reddit/amitheasshole/ar3doi
You should help out your parents when they are having financial problems.
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42
79
2
narrator|my mom
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
It's wrong
frightening animals.
agency
-1
4
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
accidentally hurting my friend and scaring her cat during a prank
reddit/amitheasshole/b89soi
It is wrong to frighten animals.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b89soi/340UGXU9D1GK71DYUYVX9P69VHRUVS/100/1
100
100
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
2
advice
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
You should
abandoning someone who hurts you regardless of the good things they have done for you in the past.
agency
0
2
legal
0
char-0
explicit
abandoning my ex after he helped me rebuild myself and then neglected me
reddit/amitheasshole/a4gklm
You should abandon someone who hurts you regardless of the good things they have done for you in the past.
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16
133
2
narrator|my ex
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
null
char-0
0
It's reasonable
getting angry when someone refuses a simple request.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
probable
calling a club owner a "short little leprechaun" and telling him that he would never find a girlfriend after not taking down a Facebook photo of me
reddit/amitheasshole/anieof
It's reasonable to get angry when someone refuses a simple request.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/anieof/3YDGXNSEO29NFRN67ZT547O7L5M84W/100/3
100
33
3
narrator|a club owner|a girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
4
description
fairness-cheating
char-1
0
it's okay
feeling suspicious when you think your partner is keeping something from you
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-1
hypothetical
not telling my wife about things that happened on my stag weekend
reddit/amitheasshole/aphjaq
If you think your partner is keeping something from you, it's okay to feel suspicious.
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129
49
2
narrator|my wife
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
authority-subversion
char-1
0
should not
scheduling other people's time
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-1
explicit
being upset with my mom about taking me on a cruise when I have class/work
reddit/amitheasshole/aj47lt
Peoples should not schedule other people's time.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/aj47lt/3PW9OPU9PTZV1DOY4012WI41NLN21D/57/2
57
38
2
narrator|my mom
amitheasshole
1
test
4
morality-ethics
null
char-0
0
it's okay
holding people responsible for their lies
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
calling out a girl about her fake depression
reddit/amitheasshole/afrsu0
It is okay to hold people responsible for their lies
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/afrsu0/31T4R4OBOVVMAHV2Q97H95406ZS7CM/38/3
38
49
2
narrator|a girl
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
rude
insulting a friend's family.
agency
-1
4
legal
-2
char-0
probable
asking my bf outright if his family is racist
reddit/amitheasshole/b4jww0
It's rude to insult a friend's family.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b4jww0/3Z9WI9EOZ231M4D2VVARO162PBOHK2/104/1
104
78
3
narrator|his family|my bf
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
null
char-0
0
it's ok
keeping your opinions to yourself.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
refusing to do a survey on the credit card reader while paying with cash at the Office Max
reddit/amitheasshole/ay7o13
It's OK to keep your opinions to yourself.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/ay7o13/3IXEICO795YKSYJ8TLXFS148Z9M6TH/131/2
131
79
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
care-harm
char-1
0
not worth it
getting upset at a stranger for driving poorly.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
cutting someone off
reddit/amitheasshole/9zdl29
It is not worth getting upset at a stranger for driving poorly.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/9zdl29/3DL65MZB8GU7JWACDHLNFFWHSO3ECQ/16/2
16
118
2
narrator|someone
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
It's wrong
making comments about someone's eating habits.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
commenting on my girlfriends breakfast choice
reddit/amitheasshole/acww5m
It's wrong to make comments about someone's eating habits.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/acww5m/3WAKVUDHUZVIWBC2C0SH3BQ6D0V7UU/42/1
42
109
2
narrator|my girlfriends
amitheasshole
1
test
3
morality-ethics
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It hurts
Being broken up with.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-1
probable
breaking up with my girlfriend
reddit/amitheasshole/a6b37y
It hurts to be broken up with.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/a6b37y/37C0GNLMHIIDB9NB7VX0NXMMWQ56DB/42/3
42
107
2
narrator|my girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
dev
2
advice
authority-subversion
char-0
0
It's nice
Paying more when you are able to because you make more.
agency
0
2
legal
0
char-0
explicit-no
not paying more than half in bills in a relationship when I make more money
reddit/amitheasshole/b0ssd4
It's nice to pay more when you are able to because you make more.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b0ssd4/3WR9XG3T66QJFDINXU1ZQ7SCEO7749/4/2
4
107
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
shouldn't
abandoning family members.
agency
-1
3
legal
-2
char-0
probable
kicking my adult "stepdaughter" out of my house
reddit/amitheasshole/b1z6r2
You shouldn't abandon family members.
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42
146
2
narrator|my adult " stepdaughter "
amitheasshole
1
train
4
advice
care-harm
char-0
0
You should
being honest and communicate to make your point with others.
agency
0
4
legal
2
char-0
probable
using tears to make my point
reddit/amitheasshole/b1tr3a
You should be honest and communicate to make your point with others.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b1tr3a/39O5D9O87W749YUFOX4RWOSKXW93CA/42/2
42
76
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
care-harm
char-1
0
It is expected
trying to take care of your personal appearance
agency
0
4
legal
1
char-1
probable-no
pointing out my friend's blackheads
reddit/amitheasshole/at6n0h
It is expected that you try to take care of your personal appearance
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/at6n0h/3MD9PLUKKLTOLVYZYU8EG0RBBV8NZV/132/2
132
106
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|advice
care-harm
char-0
0
It's good
taking in a pet that is on its own.
agency
1
3
legal
2
char-0
explicit
bringing in an abandoned cat
reddit/amitheasshole/arcwtl
It's good to take in a pet that is on its own.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/arcwtl/37QW5D2ZRJ16HCPHX0PN2A4DZLTS8R/120/2
120
138
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
authority-subversion
char-0
0
You should
respecting your grandparent's rules when you visit their house.
agency
1
4
legal
1
char-0
hypothetical
vaping at my Grandparents house
reddit/amitheasshole/abzqwn
You should respect your grandparent's rules when you visit their house.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/abzqwn/3W8CV64QJ5EH58UBRYJ2YSSMEW49HM/42/2
42
106
2
narrator|my Grandparents
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
it's ok
asking someone not to do something that annoys you.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
explicit
asking my dad to stop eating so loudly
reddit/amitheasshole/aoahqr
It's okay to ask someone not to do something that annoys you.
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120
121
2
narrator|my dad
amitheasshole
1
test
4
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
It's good
being generous.
agency
2
4
legal
1
char-0
hypothetical
considering giving my cat to my soon-to-be-ex-roommate
reddit/amitheasshole/adrjgb
It's good to be generous.
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89
101
2
narrator|my soon - to - be - ex - roommate
amitheasshole
1
dev
4
advice
null
char-0
0
It's acceptable
getting rid of things you don't need anymore.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
explicit
throwing away paints
reddit/amitheasshole/b6v3cj
It's acceptable to get rid of things you don't need anymore.
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87
106
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
it's good
warning others about things.
agency
1
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
trying to make a friend realize her new bf is a toxic psycho
reddit/amitheasshole/b49vtm
It's good to warn others of things.
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42
79
3
narrator|a friend|her new bf
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's rude
having sex with people your friend is interested in.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
sleeping with my friend's long-time crush? is girl-code real
reddit/amitheasshole/ai37fw
It's rude to have sex with people your friend is interested in.
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67
133
3
narrator|my friend|my friend 's long - time crush
amitheasshole
1
train
4
description
null
char-0
0
It's okay
wanting to protect yourself and want to keep personal matters personal.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
probable
threatening to cut my parents off if my mother tells my father something personal to me
reddit/amitheasshole/a8rjri
It's okay to want to protect yourself and want to keep personal matters personal.
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105
34
4
narrator|my parents|my mother|my father
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
It is okay
joking around with friends.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
explicit
joking that our friend is racist
reddit/amitheasshole/akocg6
It is okay to joke around with friends.
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132
112
2
narrator|our friend
amitheasshole
1
dev
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
should
being there for friends who are going through a rough time.
agency
0
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
cutting a friend whose life sucks right now out of my life
reddit/amitheasshole/atcfa9
You should be there for friends who are going through a rough time.
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129
143
2
narrator|a friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm|fairness-cheating
char-1
0
It's good
filling in for a coworker when they are on vacation.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-1
probable
not doing any of "my" work ahead of time and leaving my coworkers to flounder while I'm on vacation
reddit/amitheasshole/ardnll
It's good to fill in for a coworker when they are on vacation.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/ardnll/3EA3QWIZ4LA0LIE9VM64P4UD8HQTI5/87/4
87
42
2
narrator|my coworkers
amitheasshole
1
test
3
description
care-harm
char-0
0
It's understandable
making mistakes sometimes.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-1
explicit
making fun of somones drunk mistake
reddit/amitheasshole/a9vjsi
It's understandable that everyone makes mistakes sometimes.
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89
133
2
narrator|somones
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
it's rude
ignoring someone's birthday.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
probable
not wanting to attend a relative's 98th birthday party
reddit/amitheasshole/b1zhn2
It is rude to ignore someone's birthday.
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111
79
2
narrator|a relative
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|advice
care-harm
char-1
0
You shouldn't
getting a pet if you aren't ready for the responsibility.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-1
explicit
telling my friend/coworker I don't think she's ready to have a dog
reddit/amitheasshole/b12m31
You shouldn't get a pet if you aren't ready for the responsibility.
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42
42
2
narrator|my friend / coworker
amitheasshole
1
test
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It is expected
remaining committed to your significant other
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
hypothetical
wanting to have female friends when I have a girlfriend
reddit/amitheasshole/aovzws
It is expected that you remain committed to your significant other
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38
101
3
narrator|female friends|a girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
authority-subversion
char-0
0
It's good
sticking to the schedule for breaks that your employer sets.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
going on break when it's super busy
reddit/amitheasshole/a2kbnz
It's good to stick to the schedule for breaks that your employer sets.
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121
133
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
expected
parents helping their children learn good habits.
agency
2
4
legal
2
char-0
hypothetical
forcing my 5 year old to sleep in her own bed
reddit/amitheasshole/b3chef
Parents are expected to help children learn good habits.
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111
33
2
narrator|my 5 year old
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms|advice
care-harm
char-0
0
You should
being respectful of other people's property.
agency
1
4
legal
2
char-0
probable-no
accidentally breaking my brother's bed
reddit/amitheasshole/artcne
You should be respectful of other people's property.
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42
106
2
narrator|my brother
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's rude
telling one's parents off.
agency
-1
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
telling my mother off for not properly cleaning the dishes
reddit/amitheasshole/az3kec
It's rude to tell one's parents off.
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121
91
2
narrator|my mother
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
right
excluding anyone from your wedding.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
asking my fiancé's Maid of Honor to not bring her son to our wedding
reddit/amitheasshole/b9zxxj
You have right to exclude anyone from your wedding.
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4
52
4
narrator|my fiancé 's Maid of Honor|her son|my fiancé
amitheasshole
1
dev
4
morality-ethics
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
you shouldn't
being greedy with your friends.
agency
-1
4
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
telling my friend I won't work on her car unless she pays me
reddit/amitheasshole/ay6vu7
You shouldn't be greedy with your friends.
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42
13
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
care-harm
char-0
0
shouldn't
feeling uncomfortable when other people have to serve you as part of their jobs.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
hypothetical
making the pizza delivery guys come up the stairs to my door
reddit/amitheasshole/9zrz5g
You shouldn't feel uncomfortable when other people have to serve you as part of their jobs.
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45
49
2
narrator|pizza delivery guys
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
is wrong
Not visiting family members for an extended period of time.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
cancelling a trip to see my dad for the first time in 10 years because he wanted to get married
reddit/amitheasshole/b9sgn6
Not visiting family members for an extended period of time is wrong.
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57
43
2
narrator|my dad
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
null
char-0
0
it's appropriate
telling someone who won't leave you alone off
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
hypothetical
telling an ex-friend where to get off
reddit/amitheasshole/b3x9d9
When someone won't leave you alone, it is appropriate to tell them off.
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70
49
2
narrator|an ex - friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm|authority-subversion
char-0
0
it's expected
you committing to helping your kids in whatever way you can
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
not helping my middle school aged child with a school project
reddit/amitheasshole/a4rsrj
If you're going to have kids, you need to commit to helping them in whatever way you can
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48
14
2
narrator|my middle school aged child
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
authority-subversion
char-0
0
It's good
Taking care of children.
agency
0
4
legal
1
char-none
null
disowning my Forster parents because they were forcing the idea of having kids to me and my wife
reddit/amitheasshole/b42h4x
It's good to take care of children.
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89
107
3
narrator|my Forster parents|my wife
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
loyalty-betrayal
char-1
0
It is understandable
being upset if your girlfriend is angry at you when you are not doing anything wrong.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
being angry about my bf's ex
reddit/amitheasshole/aqqce1
It is understandable to be upset if your girlfriend is angry at you when you are not doing anything wrong.
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16
91
3
narrator|my bf|my bf 's ex
amitheasshole
1
test
2
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating|authority-subversion
char-0
0
it's okay
reporting someone if you think they're breaking the law.
agency
0
2
legal
0
char-0
probable
making a police report on a seller
reddit/amitheasshole/b77y1b
It's okay to report someone if you think they're breaking the law.
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120
39
2
narrator|a seller
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
null
char-0
0
You should
knowing that your feelings and attitudes may change drastically after having a child.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
being with a woman who has a child, considering I'm not a very child friendly person
reddit/amitheasshole/alosdz
You should know that your feelings and attitudes may change drastically after having a child.
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43
101
3
narrator|a woman|a child
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
care-harm
char-0
0
It's ok
Living out your fantasies in a safe environment.
agency
0
2
legal
0
char-0
hypothetical
exercising authority in a roleplay forum
reddit/amitheasshole/aq5njv
It's okay to live out your fantasies in a safe environment.
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40
107
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
dev
4
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
good
stay in communication with friends
agency
1
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
ghosting my friend
reddit/amitheasshole/b7wycm
It is good when friends stay in communication with one another.
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107
4
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
sanctity-degradation
char-0
0
it is foolish
avoiding a dog with pink eye because it cannot transfer to humans.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
avoiding one of my gf's dogs because I think it has pink eye
reddit/amitheasshole/b64p65
It is foolish to avoid a dog with pink eye because it cannot transfer to humans.
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84
17
2
narrator|my gf
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms|advice
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
should
minding your own business sometimes.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
being too nosy within a relationship
reddit/amitheasshole/9tgpmo
You should mind your own business sometimes.
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42
118
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
2
morality-ethics|social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
it's okay
being uncomfortable around mentally ill people.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
getting uncomfortable around downsyndrome people
reddit/amitheasshole/ab88cp
It's okay to be uncomfortable around mentally ill people.
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42
118
2
narrator|downsyndrome people
amitheasshole
1
test
3
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-1
0
It is rude
bringing a date to a party that your ex will be at.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-1
hypothetical
not wanting my ex of a week to bring the guy she left me for to my friend group's NYE Party
reddit/amitheasshole/ab9cnr
It is rude to bring a date to a party that your ex will be at.
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129
43
4
narrator|my ex|the guy she left me for|my friend group
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
it's good
helping others with issues they do not understand.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit
helping other people with it issues
reddit/amitheasshole/b5chit
It is good to help others with issues they do not understand.
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57
49
2
narrator|other people
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
null
char-0
0
It is okay
being protective of your belongings.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit
telling my girlfriend to be more careful with my stuff
reddit/amitheasshole/aj8i4a
It is okay to be protective of your belongings.
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111
42
2
narrator|my girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms|advice
care-harm|authority-subversion
char-0
0
You shouldn't
demanding things from your partner.
agency
-1
4
legal
-1
char-0
probable
having a mental ultimatum for my bf
reddit/amitheasshole/akso8m
You shouldn't demand things from your partner.
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42
106
2
narrator|my bf
amitheasshole
1
test
3
morality-ethics|description
care-harm|fairness-cheating
char-0
0
It's good
showing support for groups fighting for equality.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
not going to an equal marriage event
reddit/amitheasshole/b4dxso
It's good to show support for groups fighting for equality.
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4
42
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
It's bad
being rude to someone.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
probable
jawing back with two guys when one was rude to me
reddit/amitheasshole/a8l6mn
It's bad to be rude to someone.
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120
50
2
narrator|two guys
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
null
char-0
0
It's bad
being turned away when reporting to the police.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
going to the police
reddit/amitheasshole/azxs23
It's bad to be turned away when reporting to the police.
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121
101
2
narrator|the police
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
Its okay
Feeling concern when someone you care about seems to be making poor choices
agency
1
4
legal
0
char-0
explicit
being upset about my parents financial choices
reddit/amitheasshole/b8x2bz
It's okay to feel concern when someone you care about seems to be making poor choices
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48
84
2
narrator|my parents
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
care-harm
char-1
0
You should
being able to joke around with friends.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-1
probable
getting upset with my best friend for taking photos of two workers at our school
reddit/amitheasshole/b0qmsz
You should be able to joke around with friends.
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70
106
3
narrator|my best friend|two workers
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's wrong
Not supporting your sibling.
agency
-1
3
legal
-2
char-0
explicit
not agreeing with my sister's crazy baby drama
reddit/amitheasshole/aruqj6
It's wrong to not support your sibling.
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42
145
2
narrator|my sister
amitheasshole
1
train
4
description
null
char-1
0
it's okay
feeling frustrated if you are prohibited from using the internet
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
not giving a customer the password to our private employee wifi
reddit/amitheasshole/b5fgle
It's okay to feel frustrated if you are prohibited from using the internet.
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129
104
3
narrator|a customer|employee
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's wrong
betraying your significant others trust.
agency
-1
4
legal
-1
char-0
probable
throwing my girlfriend under the bus to help someone else
reddit/amitheasshole/a7sci5
It is wrong to betray your significant others trust.
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57
143
3
narrator|my girlfriend|someone else
amitheasshole
1
train
4
description
fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
is understandable
being upset if you see someone cheating.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
probable
telling a teacher about a student who cheated
reddit/amitheasshole/9uuhgi
It's understandable to be upset if you see someone cheating.
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127
3
3
narrator|a teacher|a student
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
It is wrong
putting animals through painful surgery that isn't necessary.
agency
-2
3
legal
-2
char-0
explicit
getting my cats declawed
reddit/amitheasshole/audeqz
It is wrong to put animals through painful surgery that isn't necessary.
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30
42
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
dev
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
it is bad
stealing
agency
-2
4
illegal
-2
char-0
explicit
taking my neighbor's free gift from a cable company
reddit/amitheasshole/b3doo0
It is bad to steal.
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5
94
2
narrator|my neighbor
amitheasshole
1
train
2
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
it's not okay
doing something that you know could hurt someone else.
agency
-1
2
legal
0
char-0
hypothetical
(potentially) letting someone's phone get stolen
reddit/amitheasshole/af3ztc
It's not okay to do something that you know could hurt someone else.
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105
14
2
narrator|someone
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms|description
null
char-1
0
It's normal
wanting to take pictures to remember people and places that matter to you.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-1
explicit
"shaming" my friends for always wanting to take pictures
reddit/amitheasshole/ass5n1
It's normal to want to take pictures to remember people and places that matter to you.
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89
106
2
narrator|my friends
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's okay
not always enjoying the company of extended family.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
probable
not wanting to spend the weekend with my wife, her mom, and her grandparents
reddit/amitheasshole/at0asf
It's okay that sometimes we don't always enjoy the company of extended family.
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105
130
4
narrator|my wife|her mom|her grandparents
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
null
char-1
0
it is immature
leaving vague status updates on facebook as a cry for help.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-1
probable
telling a person, who's had their feelings hurt by a person, that it's probably happening because they won't stop complaining online and very obviously vaguebooking
reddit/amitheasshole/b3oe61
It is immature to leave vague status updates on facebook as a cry for help.
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19
17
3
narrator|a person|a person
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
it's irresponsible
leaving a young drunk girl outside alone.
agency
-1
3
tolerated
-1
char-0
explicit
leaving the drunk, under 21, girl on the curb of the ER
reddit/amitheasshole/a35os2
It is irresponsible to leave a young drunk girl outside alone.
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84
49
2
narrator|the drunk , under 21 , girl
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-1
0
it's okay
getting mad at your partner if they are being pushy about sex during a rough time.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-1
hypothetical
getting pissed off at my bf for not wanting to be physically intimate even though we're both in a bad emotional place
reddit/amitheasshole/b8eufp
It's okay to get mad at your partner if they are being pushy about sex during a rough time.
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42
39
3
narrator|my bf|we
amitheasshole
1
train
2
advice
null
char-0
0
It's good
using different characters in video games.
agency
1
2
legal
0
char-0
explicit
using a black character in NBA2K19
reddit/amitheasshole/ask1wb
It's good to use different characters in video games.
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42
138
2
narrator|black character
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
should
being understanding of other people's issues.
agency
1
4
legal
0
char-0
probable-no
not believing my housemate's mental health issue should get her out of cleaning
reddit/amitheasshole/arw5t6
You should be understanding of other people's issues.
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111
62
3
narrator|my housemate|her
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's not okay
not helping classmates by not giving them information about the class or professor.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
not giving my professor's email to my classmate who had incurred absence because of medical reasons
reddit/amitheasshole/b0vvsa
It's not okay to not help class mates by not giving them information about the class or professor.
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105
17
3
narrator|my professor|my classmate
amitheasshole
1
train
2
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
You should
considering the environmental impacts of your actions.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
driving to work when I could easily take the train
reddit/amitheasshole/b5fun6
You should consider the environmental impacts of your actions.
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131
76
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
authority-subversion
char-0
0
It is expected
Being respectful of your in-laws when living in their home.
agency
0
4
legal
2
char-0
explicit-no
cussing out my in laws and getting us kicked out of their house
reddit/amitheasshole/axux7u
It is expected that you are respectful of your in-laws when living in their home.
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67
145
3
narrator|my in laws|us
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's rude
talking about people behind their backs.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
indirectly calling my friend/coworker ugly
reddit/amitheasshole/b184fa
It's rude to talk about people behind their backs.
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8
42
3
narrator|my friend|coworker
amitheasshole
1
test
4
description
null
char-1
0
ok
gaining weight when you are pregnant.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
hypothetical
"being triggered" by my boyfriend setting rules for my pregnancy weight gain
reddit/amitheasshole/apfejh
It's ok to gain weight when you are pregnant.
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87
76
2
narrator|my boyfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's wrong
not seeing your friends.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
probable
not wanting to see my friend
reddit/amitheasshole/agh7qz
It's wrong not to see your friends.
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42
145
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's reasonable
being upset with a family member that goes back on their offer to pay a down payment.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
explicit
being upset with MIL for going back on paying our down payment
reddit/amitheasshole/ax0gnw
It's reasonable to be upset with a family member that goes back on their offer to pay a down payment.
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100
105
3
narrator|MIL|our
amitheasshole
1
dev
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
should
telling your friends when you don't like something.
agency
0
3
legal
2
char-0
probable-no
feeding my friend when they said no
reddit/amitheasshole/azkzlo
You should tell your friends when you don't like something.
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42
138
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
dev
4
description
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's understandable
people sometimes not wanting to stay together.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
probable
breaking up with my girlfriend while she's in the hospital
reddit/amitheasshole/b0txvq
It's understandable that sometimes, people don't want to stay together.
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89
62
2
narrator|my girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
authority-subversion
char-0
0
It's okay
seting boundaries with your family members if they aren't healthy for your life
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
explicit
not wanting to see my only aunt after 11 years
reddit/amitheasshole/as2iio
It's okay to set boundaries with your family members if they aren't healthy for your life
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48
109
2
narrator|my only aunt
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|advice
care-harm
char-0
0
it's good
sharing things with other people.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
probable-no
not wanting to share with my roommates
reddit/amitheasshole/ab2pkg
It's good to share things with other people.
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120
17
2
narrator|my roommates